Thursday, February 5, 2015

Bread, on the table…s’il vous plaît


Sesame baguette
One of the things that I see when dining with visitors to France is that right after they pluck a piece of bread out of the bread basket that is invariably set on the table in cafés and restaurants, they start looking around – a little nervously – where to put their bread down. While the conversation is going, I sense a bit of multitasking – their eyes nervously scanning the table, darting back and forth, looking for something — a plate, a board, an extra napkin…anything to put their bread on.
Finally, they settle on the side of their plate or bowl as that’s the only option that seems to be available to them. But that’s tricky since the sides of plates are sloped. Their minds continue to race as they mentally calculate the engineering behind finding the exact correct angle to place the bread on the plate, usually close to the rim, so it has something to hang on to (because, darn, those porcelain plates are slippery), while trying to look nonchalant and continue to appear unruffled. But soon, the slice of baguettes starts inching down towards their dinner, and they have to keep propping it back up to keep it away from the food. Or worse, to keep it from sliding off, and onto, the table.
Chez Dumonet
Directly on the table, though, is where the bread is placed in France. Except when dining in upscale restaurants, where you’ll not only get a bread plate, but you’ll get butter, too. (Bread is meant to accompany a meal and sop up sauce, it’s not a separate course, so butter isn’t usually served with bread in France. Exceptions are fancy tables and when you get oysters, which comes with rye bread and salted butter. Then you’re welcome to spread it on.) However in most bistros and cafés, the bread basket is brought over and plunked down, and you take a piece, and set it on the table next to your plate.
I won’t comment on the hygienic merits of doing this but kitchen towels are quite suspect, especially ones that have been used repeatedly to clean tables all night. But I’ve only been stricken with le gastro five or so times since I’ve been here. And I’m not sure the culprit was bread.
Interestingly, at the boulangeries, they never handle bread with anything but their bare hands. The only time I’ve ever seen anyone use something other than their hands to grab bread for customers was in a delightful film celebrating the merits of French cuisine when it joined the UNESCO world heritage list, and the vendeuse, at the bakery shown in the film, where tongs were used for handling the bread. I don’t get weird about other’s handling my bread, except when they sneeze into their hands first. When that happens, as soon as I get home, the first thing I do is autoclave my bread before tearing into it.
(If you’re as cautious as I am, you should know that restaurants recycle the bread. Bread slices left in the basket when you’re done eating are augmented with more bread if necessary, then brought to the next table. Maybe that’s the real reason why the respected French bread expert, Professor Steven L. Kaplan, brings his own bread with him when dining out?)
Chez Dumonet
Bread is a necessity to any meal in France, and not just when tucking into a meal ofla cuisine française. I’ve been served a basket of bread along with a hamburger at cafés (which are so ubiquitous, they were the meal served at the Parisian café at last year’s salon de l’agriculture in Paris, as the plat representing Paris), and I once saw a Frenchman at a Chinese restaurant happily eating his meal along with a big mound of rice, who flagged down the waitress to ask her for some bread. I can’t say I blame them, because I like – and expect – bread all the time, too.
But I don’t expect a bread plate, and you shouldn’t either. (And don’t be a Professor wanna be and bring your own bread plate. If you bring your own bread, like he does, get ready for a few jibes.) Accept that bread goes right on the table, s’il vous plaît. Grab that bread, rip it apart, enjoy the yeasty aroma when it crumbles open. Savor the shattering crust when you bite down on it (thanking God beforehand not just for the meal, but that you don’t need to vacuum up afterward). And when it’s time to put it down, be brave and set it right on the table. Where it belongs.
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61 COMMENTS

  • Thank you for this information! I know it seems like a simple post, mais comme un Americain who visits Europe occasionally, it’s good to know the proper etiquette as well as the little nuances of French culture.
  • That’s a hilarious observation. I can imagine you sitting back laughing inside while they go through this little act.
    I can only hope Kaplan has a complete bread kit including a cutting board and knife stashed in his bread briefcase. I also hope he stops randomly on a park bench or on a bus, opens it up, and chows down much to others disbelief.
  • Now when I’m in America, I’m searching around not for a bread plate but just for bread! After only 3 years, I forgot how few places serve bread at all (minus those that are serving more artisanal bread and charging for it). You really do get used to always having (amazing) bread once you’re here for awhile
  • Fascinating, not something I’ve ever thought about! Better than a small round table (so common in deutschland) where you a struggling to find space for 2 plates and two glasses let alone a bread plate…
  • Do they recycle the bread in American restaurants? I always assumed they do, but then most of eat it all! Especially if there is butter!
  • “most of US eat it all” I meant.
  • How do you autoclave those post-sneeze baguettes?? More than once, I’ve brought bread home from my local boulangerie and thought it probably wasn’t the most hygiene food I’ve ingested! Sometimes I run it very briefly under the tap and toss it in a hot oven to crisp it up nicely which – now that I think about it – might be a good thing for my health as well.
  • I’ve read that this habit symbolizes the communal aspect of sharing a meal, of breaking bread together. In theory, bread on the table belongs to all. Again in theory, you could take a piece of your neighbor’s slice of baguette. Though I’m sure you would at the very least get some mighty strange looks.
  • Great observation–I never think about this anymore, but you’re completely right. Even the bread baskets themselves aren’t that “clean,” considering that they usually set out the uneaten bread from Table A on Table B!
    I like that the French don’t take this kind of thing as seriously as Americans…I put my bread on the table, and I’ve never once had an “intoxication alimentaire” (knock on wood!).
    I still can’t quite bring myself to take an uncovered baguette in the metro, though…
  • This is the same rule that we follow in the U.S. but most people aren’t aware of it and look shocked when you do it at a formal dinner party. It’s just like the etiquette of drinking from a cream soup bowl.
    Thanks for all your good blogs from France!
  • It’s the same as salted nuts at a bar. Never eat them since men do, then go take a wee and don’t wash their hands and chomp down more peanuts! Blech….
    Over here in la Suisse, there is usually a little plate with a knife and a pot of butter. But not everywhere…..
  • If you don’t get bread automatically in a restaurant you can ask for some, but what to do if invited to someone’s home and there’s no bread on the table? Obviously, I do nothing, but I make a mental note to bring some of my homemade baguette next time!
  • Eating in a restaurant involves a certain amount of trust, and hope, in the social contract. But I do like having a bread plate and some butter, especially in cute little ceramic tubs. Call me crazy, call me Anerican.
  • OK David, I’m just going say I chuckled at the picture of the half loaf. Can’t get my mind out of the gutter.
  • Recently ate in a San Francisco restaurant that does not serve bread! Either complimentary or for a fee! When I inquired I was told it was because so many people are gluten intolerant. Please! Call it what it is, cheapness.
  • Always wondered if restaurant bread was recycled (that’s when the 2nd or 3rd basket had leftovers)…not that often of course. Italians (my family) usually set it on the table (cloth)…we mainly use it to sop up our leftover pasta (and other) sauces.
  • Mon Dieu, what fools………how do they expect their immune system to be up and running if ‘they’ are worried about putting their bread on the table!!! Crazy. Or maybe it’s just that I have no shame……..
  • I so remember way back in the 70s being surprised when the basket of bread appeared at the Chinese restaurants. And, yes, always on the table – and, at Bastide de Moustier, one star M. you get the loaf set on the table – with a knife. DIY
  • I love everything about your posts, and this one definitely brought a smile. I miss being in France – your blog (and cookbooks) keep me there in spirit.
  • Kitchen towels used not only to clean the tables but the seats of chairs. Chairs turned seat side down on tables at night so the floor can be swept. For those who expect strict government health inspections and/or are overly concerned with their idea of cleanliness, I’ve always thought table tops were an obvious flaw in the germ eradication program. That having been said I go for the food (and the bread on the table) and avoid other distractions. (Another topic – the civilized French allow pets in restaurants.)
  • Good to know :) I was surprised when my friend and I were charged for bread in Lisbon a few months ago.
    Also, I just finished reading your book, The Sweet Life in Paris and I loved it. Coincidentally, I read it while eating lunch at Breizh cafe in Tokyo.
  • This is why one should consume wine with one’s bread (to kill off the germs)!
  • I was a little surprised by your comment that the vendeuse (yes, they usually are women) never handle the bread with anything but their hands. When I lived there full time in the 70s and when I travel back there now they usually use a small square of paper to pick up the baguette and present it to you with the paper around the middle. And this is in your local neighborhood boulangeries and not one of the fancy ones.
    • Interestingly some bakeries are now using machines to take money, and give change. (They still wait on you, but you feed in the money yourself.) Some have said it’s for “hygiene,” since money is quite germy. But recently I asked at a bakery and they said they were using the machines to prevent braquage – otherwise known as getting “held up.” I didn’t realize that bakeries were targets of armed robbers!
  • They reuse the bread in the states too…just have to use your best judgment about the cleanliness of the restaurant and decide whether you want to dig in or not!
    Love how you just put the bread right on the table – who needs a plate?
  • And you can imagine how a French reacts when abroad. Same puzzled looks around, same multitasking (catching the server’s eyes…) to get bread on the table! And this same server, looking weirdly at you when you actually ask for some bread/ toasts/ extra roll. At this point you just want anything that looks like bread and feels like it in the hands.
  • Hilarious! I can see myself doing this, not out of germophobia, but out of a desire to have “good manners”. However, we’ve got to stop being germophobes! Most bacteria are your friend and don’t cause illness. If you didn’t have any gut bacteria you’d die in short order. People round here are always slathering on the hand sanitizer. Have you seen the ingredients in that crap? Then it all ends up in our rivers and streams, not to mention your bloodstream. Stop the madness. ARGH!
  • Loved this post, David! I grew up with the bread-on-the-table phenomenon :-) Simple.
  • My husband and I spent three weeks harvesting saffron on a farm in Italy and at one point he blurted out, “I just want a bread plate!” There were 18 people in one house with one bathroom and only sporadic hot water…..and he was obsessed with the lack of a bread plate, sheesh. Needless to say, I made sure I sent this blog post to him as soon as I read it!
  • As much as I loooooooooove a baguette from the neighborhood boulangerie, I usually find the bread served in mid-scale restaurants to be very dry and tasteless. Now I know why! I never considered it’s been sliced and sitting out all day, going from table to table. A pot of salted butter would go a long way toward making it edible. Otherwise… good hockey pucks!
  • Nice one, David.
    My brother has lived in France for over forty years, and I remember he once, rather archly, asked a waiter whether there was any of today’s bread available.
    The embarrassed man had overheard us conversing in English, tried to offload some stale-ish bread, and was taken aback to be addressed in fluent French.
    That taught him!
  • This is how it’s done in old-school restaurants in New Orleans too. Sometimes at a place like Galatoire’s they will ask whether you want it the traditional way (bread on the table) or a plate!
  • I was in Paris just after Christmas, and one evening, dining in a neighborhood bistro, noted a Parisian using the bread basket as his “plate”. He would break off a piece of bread from the pieces in the basket and eat it, then, go back to the basket when he wished another bite, using the original slice of bread for his next bite. I was intrigued by this! But, that certainly solved the problem of no bread plate for that person!
  • Can you please provide the name of the film re French c

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